SPEED DATING FAQ
Apr 11, 2019 After all, 'the dating world today is much different from the dating world even 20-plus years ago,' says life coach and licensed mental health counselor Dr. Jaime Kulaga, PhD. So, how can over-50 singles reenter the dating scene with confidence? Follow these tips for dating over 50, and you'll find that special someone in no time. Sophisticated Simplicity. Our events offer a fresh alternative to speed dating and matchmaking in Providence, Rhode Island. We don't find anything romantic about whistles, name-tags or over-the-top party trimmings typically found at singles events so we have done away with them. There are few things that never change as we get older, and dating is one of them. The thrills, disappointments and gut-wrenching passions of the dating world are ever-alluring, regardless of whether you are 20 or 50, and speed dating is just another way that you can get involved in this exciting past time. Dec 02, 2020 The first speed-dating event took place in Los Angeles in 1998. This innovative way of meeting as many as 25 (though most events top out at 14 or so) possible love interests at one time was created by Antony Beilinsohn, a Los Angeles-based television executive and clearly very creative person. Aug 06, 2020 We are not a dating site although a few of our members have found someone to date within our group. This is not prohibited but it is not the reason we exist. Please do not join if you mistakenly think this is a dating site.
What is SpeedProvidence Dating & UK Style?
SpeedProvidence Dating is imported directly from the UK. It is traditional Speed Dating with an English touch. A relaxed and comfortable approach to speed dating. Rewarding lovely daters with discounts and complimentary events while saying no thank you to anyone we don't think you'll fancy meeting.
Do the British Really Do it Better?
Most speed dating parties are a bit like being at a college job fair. Complete with stop watches, whistles and a footie captain yelling “times up” in yer face! We at SpeedProvidence Dating, do things a wee bit differently. We don’t find anything romantic about name tags, microphones and whistles – so we don’t use them!
Do you have to be British to attend?
Absolutely not! We are British founded and inspired but our daters are just like you.
What type of people can I expect to meet?
We tend to draw a crowd that is intelligent and amusing, sophisticated and adventurous, while always being cheeky. Daters that don’t like to settle and tend to set the trend rather than follow it. We are in part defined by our venues and our crowd reflects such.
How do I reserve my place?
Simply select the EVENT SCHEDULE tab on the homepage for a listing of our events. Simply register online and you're all set! No paper tickets are required. You will be sent a confirmation from us and your name will be noted on our Guest List.
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Do you screen your speed daters?
In the 14 years we have had the pleasure of serving daters we've noticed the nicer a dater is to us, our hosts and each other, the more matches they get. Much like a private club, not every dater is for us. Those that tend to see the good in everything and everyone - are just what we and our daters are looking for. If we don't think a dater is someone that fellow daters would get on with - we'll respectfully decline service and reserve the right to do so.
Are you affiliated with any 'Meet-Up' groups?
We think 'Meet-Up' is a lovely free service that gives those of similar interests the opportunity to connect. We do question businesses that promote their events through 'Meet-Up' groups - only to redirect you to their own website. Some companies tout that they partner with many organizations including Craigslist offerings and 'Meet-Up' groups for their events. We do not.
What happens if the event is sold out?
We wish we could accommodate everyone! Unfortunately, the fun goes quick! You can email info@speedprovidencedating.com for information as to the process of being added to the wait list. Also, it is a good idea to keep checking back on our website as sometimes reservations become available at the last minute. We are continually updating our event calendar.
What time should I show up for the Event?
Published start times can be found in the event description. Please try to avoid doing anything unsafe in your attempt to arrive to the event on time - we do like to wait for all participants to arrive. This may cause an event to start late but we feel a perfect opportunity to chat up the hosts, have a lovely refreshment and settle in. There is no set start time for the speed dating portion of the night - we like to wait for all daters to arrive, settle in and grab a refreshment before the speed dating portion.
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What is a SpeedProvidence Dating ‘Date Mate’?
A ‘Date-Mate’ means you have a match! You checked each other on your scorecards and your email address will be exchanged with this person 24 hours after the event. Only daters that garner matches are notified approx. 24 hours after the event.
How long will I chat with my Prospective ‘Date-Mate’?
Chat up your prospective 'Date-Mates' 6-7 minutes at a time. Sometimes, for our larger events, this may be shortened by 1 or 2 minutes to accommodate all of the mini-dates in a timely fashion.
So Little time; So much to say.
Don’t worry. In today’s world we tend to know in a matter of minutes if we ‘click’ with someone. You can also chat further with your prospective ‘Date-Mate’ at intermission or mingle after the event. Just have fun and go with it!
How will I know I have any SpeedProvidence ‘Date Mates’ and how do I contact my SpeedProvidence ‘Date-Mate’?
For daters that garner matches, you will be notified via email of your ‘Date-Mate’s’ first name and email within 24 hours of the event ending. Your ‘Date-Mate’ will also receive your name and email.
Can I return for free if I don't get a match at an event?
Unlike other speed dating companies that offer free spots to those that don't receive matches, we take a different approach to returning guests. Those that receive matches, are quite popular and absolutely lovely - are often invited back with discounts or with our compliments. This ensures a fabulous pool of daters that others want to meet.
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Is Food included with my SpeedProvidence Dating ticket price?
From time to time venues may provide light nibbles for the guests. This is at the venue's discretion.
How long does a SpeedProvidence Dating event last?
The length of an event is based on the number of daters in attendance. Generally, our events last about 2 hours including intermission.
What Happens when the Event is over?
That‘s up to you! Most Daters say this is when the fun really starts! Feel free to stay and mingle for as long as you want.
I’m shy - Can I come with my Friends?
Bring your friends, have some fun! Our hosts will gladly accommodate seating for all ticketed members of your party. If you would like to be seated together please let us know. We do ask all members of your party to email in themselves to reserve.
How Many People Will I Meet?
SpeedProvidence Dating events vary in size, anywhere from 16 - 25 singles register for any given event.
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Can I pay without doing it through the Internet? Register/Info
Payment can only be accepted through the website. We only accept payment via our secure and encrypted checkout systems. If you have questions, please feel free to contact us directly at 1-866-WE SPEED.
What Should I Wear?
Well the British always like to dress it up. However, dress how you feel. No riff-raff please.
I Am Older or Younger than your age ranges – may I still attend?
Of course you may. Our age ranges are merely suggestions. We offer many age range categories. Please feel free to select the age range most comfortable for you. If you don’t see a range suitable for you please check back or let us know.
Will I be photographed or filmed?
You will absolutely not be photographed or filmed without your prior consent. While we and our daters are often called upon for special filmed events, they are scheduled as private events and are by invitation only.
What if I don't have the ability to act like a lady or gentleman?
Oh dear - how unfortunate. We do have a zero tolerance for any rudeness - of any sort. We attract such great daters but find - as in life - not every dater is ideal. Our daters are also our product and we go to great lengths to ensure everyone meets lovely daters. We want the right daters not just any daters. Behavior short of lovely will result in a dater being banned from the company. This may upset some but we feel our daters as a whole appreciate the extra effort and we hope you do too.
Can you tell me more about your promotion for Cancer Awareness?
We are super excited to announce our partnership with The Joan Gaeta Foundation for Lung Cancer Awareness. Our 'Night For Suzanne' is a great way to give back and have fun while doing it! Donate to the Joan Gaeta Foundation or any Cancer charity of your choice in the amount of your purchase - let us know you did - and we'll add you to the guest list of your desired event. It's that simple. For more information about the Joan Gaeta Foundation partnership, click here!
For additional questions, feel free to contact us at info@speedprovidencedating.com
There are few things that never change as we get older, and dating is one of them.
The thrills, disappointments and gut-wrenching passions of the dating world are ever-alluring, regardless of whether you are 20 or 50, and speed dating is just another way that you can get involved in this exciting past time.
When it comes to over 50s speed dating, there are ways you can increase your chances of success – just like more traditional forms of dating, and here are some of the ways that you can do just that.
Don’t Get Too Greedy
It is important to understand how over 50s speed dating works so that you know exactly how to tip the odds in your favour. After you have met with a certain number of potential dating candidates (remember, each encounter is timed), you will then tick a box next to their name if you are interested in seeing that person again.
If both parties tick the respective boxes, both will be provided with each other’s contact details. If only one person ticks the “I’m interested” box, neither will receive these contact details.
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If you’ve received the details of a few potential dating partners, it might be tempting to line up dates on the same day, or even the same weekend, to increase your odds of meeting someone nice, but this is definitely not a good idea.
You see, groups of friends often sign up for over 50s speed dating together, and if you’ve obtained the details of a group of friends and lined them up for another semi-speed dating experience over a weekend, they won’t thank you for it – in fact, you might lose your chances with all of them.
Rather, organize one date at a time and see how it goes before you move onto the next candidate.
Write Out a Few Questions Beforehand
When you are in a speed dating scenario, you might feel pressured to come up with some great questions, and this often gets people tongue-tied. This sort of situation requires at least some preparation, so make sure that you think of a few questions beforehand.
Make them vague enough so that you can get a good feel for the person in front of you, but remember, this isn’t a job interview or an interrogation. Don’t get too personal – this might put someone off before you have even given them a chance to get to know you.
Follow the Rules
When it comes to over 50s speed dating, the rules are there for a reason. Don’t try to gauge their address or phone number during the session, or you could end up coming across as too forward.
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Remember, just like in the traditional dating world, sometimes you have to take the disappointments along with the successes.
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Speed dating can be a lot of fun and it is a great way to meet new people, make friends and develop potential, romantic relationships, but just like traditional dating, it is also essentially a “game”, and so it helps to know the rules.